Enjoy Better Sex

Clinical Psychologist & Certified Sex Therapist

Better Sex Therapy in San Diego, California

I’m Dr. Eric van der Voort, a Clinical Psychologist (PSY27892), Certified Sex Therapist, & Certified Sexual Wellness Therapist. 

My passion is helping patients overcome difficulties with erections and orgasm, desire discrepancies, communication issues, infidelity, sexual guilt & shame, and out-of-control sexual behaviors (OCSB). 

Whether you’re kinky or vanilla, monogamous or non-monogamous, or identify as straight or part of the LGBTQ+ community, I’ll help you embrace your fantasies, address unresolved conflicts, create practical relationship agreements, and enjoy better sex. 

In our work together, you'll find healthier ways of connecting with your partner, responding to your insecurities, and confronting old narratives that keep you from getting more of the sex you want.

When you're ready to begin your journey toward better sex & overall wellness, click the link below to get started.

Do sexual concerns leave you feeling inadequate, ashamed, or hopeless?

What if those concerns suddenly stopped being so... concerning?

If you struggle with any of the issues below, sex therapy can help.

Performance Anxiety

  • You have difficulty getting or sustaining erections during sex.
  • You orgasm sooner or later than you'd like, or you cannot achieve orgasm.

Porn Use

  • You feel guilty or ashamed about your porn use.
  • You watch more porn than you'd like, or you've been told that you have a "porn addiction."

Communication Problems

  • You prioritize the needs of others, leaving you feeling unfulfilled & resentful.
  • You allow your sexual desires to go unspoken and unmet.

Sexual Attraction

  • You’re questioning your sexual orientation.
  • You're turned on by people, things, or activities that you wish you weren't.

Fantasies, Kinks & BDSM

  • You feel ashamed about some of your sexual fantasies & kinks.
  • You believe that what you fantasize about & what turns you on make you bad or unlovable. 

Substance Use

  • You only have sex when you’re intoxicated & feel uncomfortable during sober sex.
  • Your substance use keeps you from the intimacy you deserve.

Ready to Enjoy Better Sex?