Enjoy Better Sex

Clinical Psychologist & Certified Sex Therapist

Better Sex Therapy in California

My name is Eric van der Voort, PsyD, CST. As a Clinical Psychologist (PSY27892), Certified Sex Therapist, & Certified Sexual Wellness Therapist, my passion is helping patients overcome: 

- Difficulties with erections and orgasm
- Sexual desire discrepancies
- Communication issues
- Infidelity
- Sexual guilt & shame
- Out-of-Control Sexual Behaviors (OCSB)

Whether you’re kinky or vanilla, monogamous or non-monogamous, straight or part of the LGBTQ+ community, I’ll help you embrace your fantasies, address unresolved conflicts, create practical relationship agreements, and enjoy better sex. 

When you're ready to begin your journey toward better sex & overall wellness, click the link below and let's get to work.

Do sexual concerns leave you feeling inadequate, ashamed, or hopeless?

What if those concerns suddenly stopped being so... concerning?

If you struggle with any of the issues below, sex therapy can help.

Performance Anxiety

  • You have difficulty getting or sustaining erections during sex.
  • You orgasm sooner or later than you'd like, or you cannot achieve orgasm.

Porn Use

  • You feel guilty or ashamed about your porn use.
  • You watch more porn than you'd like, or you've been told that you have a "porn addiction."

Communication Problems

  • You prioritize the needs of others, leaving you feeling unfulfilled & resentful.
  • You allow your sexual desires to go unspoken and unmet.

Sexual Attraction

  • You’re questioning your sexual orientation.
  • You're turned on by people, things, or activities that you wish you weren't.

Fantasies, Kinks & BDSM

  • You feel ashamed about some of your sexual fantasies & kinks.
  • You believe that what you fantasize about & what turns you on make you bad or unlovable. 

Substance Use

  • You only have sex when you’re intoxicated & feel uncomfortable during sober sex.
  • Your substance use keeps you from the intimacy you deserve.

Ready to Enjoy Better Sex?