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Sex Therapy in California

Eric van der Voort, PsyD, CST

I'm Dr. Eric van der Voort, a licensed psychologist (PSY27892) and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist. I have over a decade of specialized experience helping patients reach their sexual and mental health goals. From my office in San Diego, I provide video Telehealth services to adults throughout California. Below are some of the most common sexual concerns I treat:

- Sexual Performance Anxieties
- Difficulties with Erections & Orgasm
- Communication Issues in Relationships
- Navigating Non-Monogamy Agreements
- Embracing Your Sexual Attractions
- Exploring Kink & BDSM
- Sex with Substance Use
- Sexual Guilt & Shame
- Porn Use & Misuse
- Infidelity

Whether you’re kinky or vanilla, monogamous or non-monogamous, straight or part of the LGBTQ+ community, I’ll help you address your arousal concerns, embrace your fantasies, address unresolved conflicts, create practical relationship agreements, and enjoy better sex. 

When you're ready to begin your journey toward better sex & overall wellness, click the link below to get started. I look forward to working with you.

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"Redefining Sex: Performance Anxiety, Kinks, and the Truth About Intimacy"


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Sex Therapy is Effective

Do sexual challenges leave you feeling inadequate, ashamed, or hopeless?

Do you want to gain valuable insights, develop a healthier relationship with sex, and feel more sexually confident?

Sex therapy is an effective and empowering treatment for adults wanting to address a variety of sexual issues.


Common Sex Therapy Topics

Performance Anxiety

  • You have difficulty getting or sustaining erections during sex.
  • You orgasm sooner or later than you'd like, or you cannot achieve orgasm.

Porn Use

  • You feel guilty or ashamed about your porn use.
  • You watch more porn than you'd like, or you've been told that you have a "porn addiction."

Communication Problems

  • You prioritize the needs of others, leaving you feeling unfulfilled & resentful.
  • You allow your sexual desires to go unspoken and unmet.

Sexual Attraction

  • You’re questioning your sexual orientation.
  • You're turned on by people, things, or activities that you wish you weren't.

Fantasies, Kinks, BDSM

  • You feel ashamed about some of your sexual fantasies & kinks.
  • You believe that what you fantasize about & what turns you on make you bad or unlovable. 

Substance Use

  • You prefer to have sex when you’re intoxicated & feel uncomfortable during sober sex.
  • Your substance use keeps you from the intimacy you crave.

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