Enjoy Better Sex

Clinical Psychologist & Certified Sex Therapist

Better Sex Therapy in California

My name is Dr. Eric van der Voort. I'm a Clinical Psychologist (PSY27892) and Certified Sex Therapist. From my office in San Diego, I provide Telehealth services throughout California to adults with sexual concerns.

My clinical expertise and passions are in helping patients address: 

  • Difficulties with erections and orgasm
  • Sexual desire discrepancies
  • Communication issues
  • Infidelity
  • Guilt & shame about sex or porn use
  • Out-of-Control Sexual Behaviors (OCSB)
  • Navigating the nuances of non-monogamy agreements
  • Enjoying kink and BDSM
  • Exploring your sexuality

Whether you’re kinky or vanilla, monogamous or non-monogamous, straight or part of the LGBTQ+ community, I’ll help you embrace your fantasies, address unresolved conflicts, create practical relationship agreements, and enjoy better sex. 

When you're ready to begin your journey toward better sex & overall wellness, click the link below to get started. I look forward to working with you.

Do sexual concerns leave you feeling inadequate, ashamed, or hopeless?

What if those concerns suddenly stopped being so... concerning?

If you struggle with any of the issues below, sex therapy can help.

Performance Anxiety

  • You have difficulty getting or sustaining erections during sex.
  • You orgasm sooner or later than you'd like, or you cannot achieve orgasm.

Porn Use

  • You feel guilty or ashamed about your porn use.
  • You watch more porn than you'd like, or you've been told that you have a "porn addiction."

Communication Problems

  • You prioritize the needs of others, leaving you feeling unfulfilled & resentful.
  • You allow your sexual desires to go unspoken and unmet.

Sexual Attraction

  • You’re questioning your sexual orientation.
  • You're turned on by people, things, or activities that you wish you weren't.

Fantasies, Kinks & BDSM

  • You feel ashamed about some of your sexual fantasies & kinks.
  • You believe that what you fantasize about & what turns you on make you bad or unlovable. 

Substance Use

  • You only have sex when you’re intoxicated & feel uncomfortable during sober sex.
  • Your substance use keeps you from the intimacy you deserve.

Ready to Enjoy Better Sex?