Enjoy Better Sex

Clinical Psychologist & Certified Sex Therapist

Better Sex Therapy in California

I'm Dr. Eric van der Voort, a Certified Sex Therapist and Psychologist (PSY27892) with a decade of licensed clinical experience. From my telehealth office in San Diego, I provide sex therapy services to individuals and couples throughout California. Treatment specializations include: 

  • Sexual Performance Anxieties
  • Difficulties with Erections & Orgasm
  • Sexual Guilt & Shame
  • Porn Misuse
  • Communication Issues
  • Infidelity
  • Sex with Substance Use
  • Navigating Non-Monogamy Agreements
  • Exploring Kink & BDSM
  • Accepting Your Sexual Attractions

Whether you’re kinky or vanilla, monogamous or non-monogamous, straight or part of the LGBTQ+ community, I’ll help you embrace your fantasies, address unresolved conflicts, create practical relationship agreements, and enjoy better sex. 

When you're ready to begin your journey toward better sex & overall wellness, click the link below to get started. I look forward to working with you.

Do sexual concerns leave you feeling inadequate, ashamed, or hopeless?

What if those concerns became opportunities for insight and better sex?

If you struggle with any of the issues below, sex therapy can help.


Performance Anxiety

  • You have difficulty getting or sustaining erections during sex.
  • You orgasm sooner or later than you'd like, or you cannot achieve orgasm.

Porn Use

  • You feel guilty or ashamed about your porn use.
  • You watch more porn than you'd like, or you've been told that you have a "porn addiction."

Communication Problems

  • You prioritize the needs of others, leaving you feeling unfulfilled & resentful.
  • You allow your sexual desires to go unspoken and unmet.

Sexual Attraction

  • You’re questioning your sexual orientation.
  • You're turned on by people, things, or activities that you wish you weren't.

Fantasies, Kinks & BDSM

  • You feel ashamed about some of your sexual fantasies & kinks.
  • You believe that what you fantasize about & what turns you on make you bad or unlovable. 

Substance Use

  • You only have sex when you’re intoxicated & feel uncomfortable during sober sex.
  • Your substance use keeps you from the intimacy you deserve.

Ready to Enjoy Better Sex?